Thursday, May 24, 2012

Week 32



I waited a day to post because I had a doctor's appointment this afternoon and figured that I'd want to include that information on my weekly post. Little did I know....



The past week seemed to be going pretty well. I survived the end of the week with my crazy middle schoolers and was looking forward to taking it easy this week with the 8th grade gone. My mom, both sisters, and Al's boyfriend came in town Friday and we enjoyed hanging out for a bit until they had to leave for Winston-Salem. Later in the evening, Jay arrived home from his business trip and my Dad flew in from Philly. We enjoyed a lovely meal of KFC and my dad was kind enough to go on an ICEE run for me Friday night.



Saturday morning my aunt Barbara flew in from Chicago and we all headed up to Winston-Salem for the graduation festivities. We enjoyed a nice weekend filled with family and it was awesome to spend some time with my Grandpa. I'm going to do a separate graduation post with all sorts of pictures and details. I felt pretty great most the weekend with the exception of Monday. Bo graduated outside in the heat on Monday morning and my ankles swelled to extreme proportions!



Tuesday and Wednesday I was back at school and taking it super easy. I was able to come in at 10 and leave at 2. Today was a little rough at school mainly because I am sooo tired. It is so hard to sleep at night! Jay and I met at the ob's office at 3:30 for my weekly appointment. I was up 5 lbs from last week and my blood pressure had sky rocketed to 130/90. I was slightly nervous as the nurse walked us back to the exam room. My doctor came in and let me know that I had protein in my urine and my blood pressure was too high. He told me I was done with work and was to stay at home and off my feet for the remainder of my pregnancy. He originally said that he wanted to see me back on Tuesday but by the end of the appointment, decided that I needed to be seen tomorrow (Friday) instead. He also sent me down to the lab for bloodwork. I was given strict instructions to call the triage line if ANYTHING different happened this weekend. He made me a little nervous because he was taking things so seriously. He talked to me about liver pain and what it would feel like. I'm going in tomorrow afternoon for my other doctor to check out my bloodwork results from today and to have an NST (non stress test) done on my babies.



Tomorrow will be my last day of work. I tried to argue that I could finish out the year (7 more days!) but he was having none of it. I don't know a lot about preeclampsia but from what I've read so far it sounds like I really need to take his advice and relax if I want to carry these babies for much longer. I got teary eyed leaving the hospital. This is not what I wanted. I felt like my body could totally handle carrying these babies to 38 weeks and it very well may be capable if I start taking care of myself with lots of rest. As much as I don't want to be on bedrest, I want to keep my babies out of the NICU or at least be able to bring them home as soon as possible. I'm saying my prayers that they will continue to grow and stay put. I am glad though that my doctor is aggressive and he said that if I have to stay in antipartum on the labor and delivery floor then that's what we'll do! I'd rather be safe in a hospital with nurses and doctors to monitor the babies' every move than risk it. I'll be back with my results tomorrow!



Also at today's appointment, Dr. Wicker went to find the heartbeats and easily found Holden's. I forgot to ask what it was but he said it was normal. He went to find Emma Cate's and couldn't. He immediately told me that his doppler hadn't been working well all day and not to worry. Ha! I didn't even think about worrying. Emma Cate has been kicking me all day long. I had no fear that she was in there. Even when he was trying to find the heartbeat, he put his hand on my stomach and she gave him a swift kick. He realized that she was down a little lower and soon was able to find her heartbeat too. I've got a feisty one on my hands!

Pregnancy Highlights:
Today's Date: Thursday, May 24th, 2012
How Far Along: 32 weeks 1 day
Pregnancy Countdown: 42 or less days
Size of babies: A squash. The babies are 15.2-16.7 inches long and weigh between 2.5- 3.8 pounds 
Total Weight Gain/Loss: According to the doctor's scale I'm up 35lbs. It's crazy to me that I've tried really hard to manage my weight this entire pregnancy and now I'm packing on the water weight like whoa. I'm up 12 lbs in the past two weeks and feeling really swollen everywhere. 
Maternity Clothes: Yes, all the time. Nothing fits and I am most comfortable in a tank top and pj pants with the fan going and AC blasting.
Gender: Girl- Emma Cate and Boy- Holden.
Movement: I ate another milkshake today and the babies went nuts. I wonder what's in those things! Last night around 1am they decided to have another party in my belly. Holden was going nuts. I've never felt him so active. I'm wondering if he is completely off from my schedule and decides its time to play when I'm asleep and sleeps when I'm usually awake.
Sleep: It has been rough this week. Twice I've thrown up. Once I didn't make it to the edge of the bed in time and Jay was sweet to clean up after me and wash my pillow. Yuck. I have a lot of trouble rolling over in bed and sometimes need assistance. I use the restroom around 4-5 times from the time I lay down in bed  until I am able to fall asleep. I'm waking up to use the restroom during the middle of the night and again around 6am when Jay gets up for work. I feel like my body is already working towards getting on a feeding schedule. Jay has commented that I am snoring all of the time now regardless of what position I lay in. He said that I choke in my sleep a lot and my breathing is really off. If  I wake up in the middle of the night, I always have acid reflux and will supplement my prescription with a little pepto. 
What I miss: sleeping on my tummy, walking, my old feet, my not so jiggly tummy
Cravings: The list so far of things I've craved the most this pregnancy: Icees, Mac & Cheese, Chocolate Ice Cream, Rusty's baked potatoes, and Coke. This week we'll add baked goods. Any type. Brownies, cake, cookies, etc.
Symptoms: braxton hicks, acid reflux, getting incredibly hot, cramping, extreme pressure when I stand up or walk, stretch marks, itchy skin on my stomach, gas, feeling like my ribs are going to break from all of the kicking. I've also swollen so bad that my stomach is hanging over and jiggly at the bottom. It used to be really tight everywhere but now I feel like someone that has lost weight but has a lot of skin leftover. I don't know if that makes sense but its the best way I know to describe it.
Best Moment this week: Watching my little sis graduate college!





how sad do these piggies look? its bad when even your toes have rolls




our middle sister Allie wasn't able to stay on Monday for graduation but she watched it on her computer from the webcast and sent us the pic!




Wake Forest Class of 2012




went out to eat after graduation and my belly barely fit!




this is probably the WORST picture of me EVER but Bo and I went to Ikea to pick up somet things for her new apartment and we got a wheel chair as soon as we arrived. It was soooo nice not to walk through that crazy huge store. By the time we made it down to the marketplace, we had to rig up this shopping cart to the wheel chair in order to get everything she needed. I was DYING laughing in this picture. Other shoppers thought we were nuts!


The other morning Jay went to take Boomer out and found this lovely little black snake on our front porch. The white at the top of the picture is the roof of the porch and the snake is hanging out on the decorative brick that stick out slightly from the wall. Jay went to get him down with a stick and had to actually wake the snake up. It must have been a chilly evening and the snake was staying near the light fixture to keep warm! Every time I've gone out to get the mail since I am extra careful to lookout for this guy. Jay didn't kill it because it is pretty harmless and helps keep bugs away. YUCK.






Your baby's the size of a squash!
Still growing, your baby weighs in at about 2.5 to 3.8 pounds and measures about 15.2 to 16.7 inches.

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Playmates

Lots of playtime has been happening between the twins. It's do strange to think of the relationship that is already forming between these two. One will start flutter kicking and soon the other one joins in. I have no idea if this is true but Holden seems to be turned in towards my back because I rarely feel his kicks. The only time I feel him is after some really sugary food or when Emma Cate gives him a swift kick and he fires back!

It will be really interesting to see what personalities emerge from these little people. Currently, Emma Cate seems like my feisty one and Holden is my laid back sleeper. Jay commented yesterday that Holden is living up to his Caviness namesake :) 

What we've bought for Baby

I have been on the hunt for lists of things that you need for twins. I don't mean list that say bottles, wipes, etc. I mean like very detailed, how many, what brand, lists. Since I haven't found any, I've decided to create my own. Hopefully this helps future mama's down the road! Remember this is doubled for twins!

***Please also note, my twins are not born yet. I truly have no clue what we will use. I'm trying to be prepared for anything. I'll update in a few months once we've figured things out!

Gear
Infant Carseats- Chicco Keyfit 30 (did not buy extra bases)
Convertible Carseats- Britax Marathon 70 Car Seats (keep in Jay's car (doubtful that he will ever have the twins by himself in his car (which is super tiny) but just in case.-  We will use them in my car once they outgrow infant seats)
Stroller- City Select by Baby Jogger + adapters for Chicco strollers
Pack 'N Play- Graco (not sure what kind, was gifted to us and we haven't set it up yet)
Front Carrier- We have two baby Bjorns (one navy set and one grey and red set... gotta be prepared for State games) We also have a Moby wrap

Safety
Monitor- Motorola Digital Video Monitor 3.5" Screen (we bought an additional camera for the monitor too)

Diapering
Infant Prefolds- We have 24 bummis organic infant size prefolds. Will most likely need to buy more. We also have 2 packages of snappis to keep those diapers on tight!
Newborn Covers- Have 8 bummis super brites (4 white and 4 colored)
Infant Covers- Have 2 thirties duo wraps (pink and green), and 4 swaddlebees capri snaps (pink,blue, 2 red))
Pocket Diapers- Have 4 bumgenius and 4 oh katy (will wait to buy more when we reach that stage)
Wipes- Have 24 bum genius flannel and 24 babee greens softies
Wipes solution- Babee greens cleansing green
Wipe Holder- Have 2 Skip Hop travel holders  
Pail- Dekor Plus
Liner- (1) 1 Thirsties Drawstring- bought draw string over elastic top so that we can use it for overnight travel. (2) 1 Planet Wise wetbag- small enough to fit in diaper bag (3) 1 Itzy Ritzy wetbag- for my diaper bag
Diaper Bag- I have two Storksaks Olivia bags, one tan and one black. Jay has an NC State messenger bag, I also have two smaller Bella Tunno diaper clutches for when we have less crap :)

Layette
Sleepers- assortment of gowns and footed onesies
Sleep Sacks- Have 4 Summer Infant SwaddlePods (2 blue 2 pink), 2 Summer Infant SwaddleMe Cotton (1 blue 1 pink), 2 Halo Sleep Sacks (cream)
Blankets- Have four thick, plush blankets for tummy time, etc.
Swaddle Blankets- Have four Swaddle Designs Blankets (2 pink 2 blue), several inexpensive gerber receiving blankets, two white monogramed receiving blankets

Toys and Activity
Bouncer Seat- Graco Sweetpeace Swing- seat comes out and can be used as bouncer
Swing- Graco Sweetpeace (plugs into wall and removable seat) and Mama Roo seat
Activity Gym- 
Exersaucer- Evenflo
Mobile- Pottery Bark Kids
Jumperoo- Evenflo Johnny and Jenny Jumpers
Rattles and Teethers- Sophie Teethers and several others

Mom Equipment
Chair- 2 gliders, one with gliding stool and one with nursing stool

Nursery and Linens
Changing Table- PBK Catalina dresser and topper (in nursery) and Ikea Hemmes Sofa Table (in family room)
Changing Pad- Two (one in each location)
Changing Pad Covers- two from PBK (for family room) and two by Boppy (for nursery)
Sheet Savers- Have 4 Summer Infant Ultimate Crib Sheets
Fitted Sheets- Have 4 organic cotton buy buy baby brand
Mattress Pad- Have 2 buy buy baby brand
Pack N Play sheets- Have 2 organic cotton buy buy baby brand
Laundry Hamper- Don't have yet but plan to order from PBK
Night Lights- Don't have yet but plan to order from PBK
Sound Machine- Have one from homemedics, one portable one from homemedics, and each twin has a stuffed bear that mimics heartbeat, womb, etc. Our monitor also plays lullabies.

Bathing
Bathtub- We have two PUJ tubs I found at a consignment sale to use in the sinks and one hard plastic one for the bathtub
Baby wash cloths- We have a ton!
Baby Towels- We have two hooded towels and two bathrobes for each baby

Baby Care
Brush and Comb
Nail clippers and files
Thermometer- We have the normal kind but will look at getting an ear type or whatever our pediatrician recommends.
Nasal Aspirator- Nose Frieda
Pacifiers- We have several soothies, a few "naturals", and each baby has a wubanub

Feeding
Bottles- We decided to skip the 4oz and go straight for the 8oz since I will be home breastfeeding the babies (God-willing). We bought 4 Avent 8oz and 8 Dr. Brown's 8oz. We're going to see what the babies prefer before buying more of either brand.
Bottle Warmers- Bought a First Years brand at a consignment sale
Dishwasher Caddy- Starting with one munchkin brand but will probably have to add more
Breast Pump- Planning to rent a hospital grade one at first
Nursing pillow- Twin Breast Friend
High Chair- Fisher Price Space Saver High Chairs for use at home and Phil and Ted's Lobster Chair to take on trips with us
Bibs- We received several as gifts but needed to buy a few that were a bit more functional







Friday, May 18, 2012

New Readers

For some reason there have been a ton of fun pregnancy/twin link ups recently and its right at the time that I started this new blog and made my old blog private. I'm going to work on importing my weekly posts from my old blog so stay tuned!

Happy Friday

The morning started out very sluggish. I have been SO tired! Holden is feeling like his mama and not into moving much. We had to listen to a little rap on the way to school today to make sure they were alive and kicking.
just realized the irony of the parent advisory label...

even the dog was sleepy this am!


After teaching two short classes, I headed over the ob's office for my weekly check up. The doctor was running super late and I was nervous about missing my class.

The babies are looking perfect. I didn't even ask the heartbeats but Holden's was very easy to find and Emma Cate was squirming everywhere (story of my pregnancy) and the doctor has to try a few times to get a good read. Luckily my blood pressure has dropped down to a normal range. On Wednesday (the day of the great feet swell) my blood pressure was at 138/86, it had gone down a little yesterday to 128/80 and today at the doctor it was back to semi-normal at 116/70. I gained 7 pounds this week and since I can barely eat, my doctor said that it is all fluid retention. He thinks I'm good on the preeclampsia front but sent me for bloodwork to just be sure.

We've got a crazy weekend coming up. Bo (baby sister) has been in town since Wednesday keeping me company. My mom has probably already arrived in Charlotte and they're heading over to Bo's new apartment to do a walk through and start moving in. Allie (middle sister) and her boyfriend are on there way up from Augusta and should arrive this afternoon. Bo, Allie, Mom, and Brett are leaving to head to Winston-Salem tonight to kick off graduation weekend. Jay should arrive back in Charlotte sometime this afternoon and my Dad is flying in from Philly tonight. Tomorrow my Aunt arrives from Chicago and the four of us will head to Winston for a series of parties celebrating my sister :) I'll be back on Tuesday will party picks from this weekend!

Friday Phone Dump
wish I was closer to the mirror but I look HUGE in this outfit 

oh piggys. I'm sorry for all that you are going through. 

 
outfit of the day
31 weeks 2 days

holding up the belly 
31 weeks 2 days


Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Week 31


31 WEEK POST:

Still thankful for each day these babies stay cooking! And thankful for each day they make me more uncomfortable and stretch mark-y. Ha! 

This has been a week of increased contractions, swelling, and ugly pregnancy symptoms. I feel like nesting is pretty much over. Everything has been purchased, washed, and put together. Now the waiting game begins!

Yesterday I had a meeting with my administrators about my "bed rest". They were extremely accomodating and I'm very grateful. I really want to finish out the school year and I think resting and staying hydrated are the keys to making that happen. I've been given to leave during my planning period (2pm) to go home and rest. Next week, our 8th graders go to Washington DC. Usually encore (elective) teachers are require to be at school in our classrooms even when our students are not here. I was informed yesterday that I'm allowed to sleep in and arrive at 10am instead of 7:30. I am just so thankful that they are being so helpful!

As of this morning, I had not felt Holden move in a long time so I decided to try and wake him up with a little of this.

The babies really seem to respond to loud bass... I wonder where they get that from (cough cough)? Maybe I should rethink about selling the subs and amp that we recently removed from my old car when we sold it and install them in the back of my Tahoe. Ha!

Jay's absence has definitely made me cranky this week. I had a horrible Monday night. Contractions were happening for 30 seconds each, every 5 minutes. By the time the 4th one hit I was ready to head to the hospital. Fortunately, there was not a 5th contraction and following my doctor's orders (head to the hospital if you have more than 5 consecutive contractions within an hour) I headed off to bed. I continued to wake up each hour with a rough contraction and a bout of "sickness". My heartburn/acid reflux was out of control. Finally around 1:30am I took more medicine and fell asleep. Jay got a phone call every hour that I was awake. You're welcome hunny! 

Yesterday was MUCH better with very few contractions and lots of movement from Emma Cate on the right side. My feet have expanded to twice their size regardless of the 120oz of water I've been drinking and all of the propping I've been doing. Last night the covers for their anywhere chairs came in and I'm excited to use them as backdrops for their monthly photo shoots!



Pregnancy Highlights:
Today's Date: Wednesday, May 16th, 2012
How Far Along: 31 weeks
Pregnancy Countdown: 49 or less days
Size of babies: A pineapple. The babies are 15.2-16.7 inches long and weigh between 2.5- 3.8 pounds 
Total Weight Gain/Loss: 29 lbs. I've gained 4 pounds in a week. I'm pretty sure its all water/fluid retention but I'm getting a little worried about how huge I'm going to be at the end of this.
Maternity Clothes: Yes, all the time. I went to Pea in a Pod to find a dress for my sister's graduation this weekend and NOTHING fit. 
Gender: Girl- Emma Cate and Boy- Holden.
Movement: Emma Cate is moving like crazy. Holden is being lazy. When he does move though, it is pretty painful. I think he is trying to separate my ribs.
Sleep: Sleep varies. Some nights it is easy to sleep others I wake up all of the time. It also depends on my fluid intake ;) My belly weighs a ton and getting out of bed and sitting up are both difficult. I ran out of my heartburn prescription and went three days without it. I was miserable. So glad to be back on it!
What I miss: just feeling like my normal self.
Cravings: The list so far of things I've craved the most this pregnancy: Icees, Mac & Cheese, Chocolate Ice Cream, Rusty's baked potatoes, and Coke. The other night I was really really stressed and took a long hot shower and had a major craving for a sip of red wine.
Symptoms: braxton hicks, acid reflux, getting incredibly hot, cramping, extreme pressure when I stand up or walk, stretch marks, itchy skin on my stomach. 
Best Moment this week: Packing up the hospital bags and getting everything in order for the twins to make their appearance!

31 weeks 

31 weeks

31 weeks

super fat hands

super fat feet. Ignore the need to a pedicure. I have an appointment this week!

Your baby's the size of a pineapple!
He's about 15.2 to 16.7 inches long and weighs about 2.5 to 3.8 pounds this month. He's getting so big, he's probably crowding your lungs.


Monday, May 14, 2012

To Do List Update #2

I like having my to do list here so that I can always find it where ever I am! Jay and I started talking about packing hospital bags last night and there are a lot of little things I need to remember!

Hospital Packing List:
My Bag
3 sets of PJs (bought Olian brand robe, top and pants set)
2 delivery gowns (I ordered the Nicole and Molly from Baby Be Mine) Need to be monogrammed
2 nursing night gowns and matching baby gowns (Ordered the Nicole and Molly from Baby Be Mine)
5 pack of large granny panties to dispose of afterwards
1 light weight white waffle robe (JC Penny!)
1 pair of slippers
Going home outfit (haven't figured this one out yet but I'm thinking a maxi dress will be my best bet)
Flip flops (my Tory Burch gold ones)
My toiletry kit (make up, shampoo, conditioner, lotion, deodorant, toothbrush, toothpaste, hair ties)
Hair dryer
Curling Iron
Big Round Brush
Pillow (pillow case on order from Pottery Barn (all we have is white at home and our hospital requested we don't bring white so that it doesn't accidentally get taken out with the laundry)
Nursing bras (need to purchase)

Jay's Bag
Ipad charger
Iphone chargers
AA batteries for flip camera
Flip Camera
My laptop & charger
Camera cord
DSLR camera & lenses
Waterproof camera (don't really need the water proof part but this is our back up digital camera)
Pillow for him
Snacks for him
Folder for important documents

Babies' Bags
Mittens
Monogrammed Side snap t-shirts
White Kissy Kissy outfits
Pink & Blue Kissy Kissy outfits
Smocked Kissy Kissy outfits (pictures)
Kissy Kissy hats (pink, blue, and white)
Baby socks
Going home outfits
Pink & Blue polka dot gowns and hats
Pink & Blue polka dot swaddle blankets
Muslin swaddle blankets

Extras
Boppys for each baby
BreastFriend Twin nursing pillow
Birth Announcement Favors (buy bags, order bag tags, order cookies, order mints, assemble and put in box)
Champagne/Sparkling Cider to celebrate
Cups (personalized and ordered from Party Innovations)


Am I forgetting anything?!


To Do:
Gear

Buy seat protectors for car seat install (Buy Buy Baby)
Install carseats in both cars 
Schedule carseat inspection (CMC Main)
Set up pack 'n play in basement
Buy storage compartment for stroller (Buy Buy Baby)
Buy moby wrap (Babies R Us)


Safety
Buy second camera for video monitor (Buy Buy Baby)

Diapering
Buy 4 6 newborn/infant diaper covers (Milky Way)
Buy 2-12 packs of infant prefold diapers (Buy Buy Baby)
Buy pack of Snappies (Milky Way) 
Buy pail liner for nursery (Milky Way or Amazon)
Buy Dekor diaper pail (Amazon or Target)
Buy small wet bag for travel (Milky Way or Amazon)
Buy 4-12 packs of flannel diaper wipes (Buy Buy Baby)
Wash all prefold diapers 4x

Layette

Buy Adan + Anais muslin swaddle blankets (Any Baby Store) Too expensive.
Buy muslin swaddle blankets (Milky Way)
Buy 2 sleep sacks (Babies R Us- on sale)
Pack diaper bag (changing pad, disposable wipes, small wet bag, diapers, onesies)
Pack twins hospital bags (picture outfits, coming home outfits, mittens, and blankets)
Buy large thick blanket for tummy time in family room (Pottery Barn)
Wash newborn clothing and plain white onesies
Wash all blankets

Toys and Activity
Buy Exersaucer (Buy Buy Baby)
Buy storage bins for family room (Ikea)
Set up swing in family room
Buy and Set up MamaRoo
Set up activity gym
Organize baby toys- bring them out of nursery and into family room,
Organize board books in family room- leave big books in nursery

Mom and Dad
Set up feeding/changing charts for each baby
Pack hospital bags (I think the is going to be sub list!)
Buy ItzBeen Timers (Amazon)
Buy Padalliys for carseats (Baby Stores)
Clean out and sell or use garage freezer
Read Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Twins and pray.
Sign up for cloth diapering class at Milky Way
Attend childbirth class (5/1 & 5/8)

Nursery

Buy tan changing pad cover (Buy Buy Baby)
Buy 4 ultimate sheet savers (Buy Buy Baby)
Buy 2 fitted crib sheets (Buy Buy Baby)
Buy 2 Pack N' Play sheets (Buy Buy Baby)
Buy package of cloth diapers for burp cloths Bought actual burp clothes instead
Buy laundry hamper (Pottery Barn Kids)
Buy nightlights (Pottery Barn Kids)
Set up sound machine 
Wash crib sheets
Fix drawer pulls
Purchase drawer organizers (Ikea)
Buy baskets for closet organization (Buy Buy Baby)
Move white shelf from garage to Emma Cate's closet
Organize drawers
Buy more baskets (Buy Buy Baby)

Bathing
Wash wash cloths and hooded towels
Clean kitchen sink really well. Come up with alternative place for drying rack.

Baby Care
Buy nail files (Target)
Buy Nose Frieda and filters (Target)
Come up with central place to keep extra binkis
Buy Infant Tylenol (Target)
Buy Infant saline drops (Target)
Buy more dreft or tide free and clear (Target)
Schedule interview/visit to pediatrician

Feeding
Clean out kitchen cabinet for baby supplies
Organize bottles and buy more if needed, need 12 per baby (Babies R Us- on sale)
Return 4oz baby bottles
Wash baby bottles
Set up bottle warmer (figure out how it works)
Buy level one nipples for Dr. Browns (Target)
Buy 1 dishwasher caddy (Babies R Us- on sale)
Buy breast pads and lanolin (Target)
Buy/Rent nursing pillow (Contact CMOMS or purchase at Buy Buy Baby)
Buy 2 Space Saver chairs (Babies R Us)
Buy 4 packages bibs (Buy Buy Baby)

Monday Monday

I had been anticipating this weekend for a long time. For a while I was seeing my mom every weekend and we were getting lots done and having lots of fun hanging out. It had been around 3 weeks since she was in town last and I was excited that her and my middle sister, Allie, were coming in town for Mother's Day.

I worked late on Friday night and got home shortly before my Mom and sister arrived. We enjoyed dining outdoors at one of our old favorites, Rusty's. After dinner, Jay loaded up the boat and headed to Asheboro to spend the weekend with his family. Congrats to Jenna, his cousin, on graduating from NC State on Saturday.

I was pretty exhausted this weekend and my mom and Allie did a LOT for me around the house! I'll need to update my to do list to see what else needs to happen. I am sooo thankful for both my mom and sister's help. I'm really not feeling great and they really were so kind to do practically everything for me. I feel much better having both the babies' bags and mine all packed and ready to go. The kitchen cabinets have been cleaned out and organized. All of my spring/easter decorations have been packed up are stored in the attic. The carseat head supports and strap covers are in. The beds are made. I just feel soooo much better (mentally, not physically)... The physical part of pregnancy is getting tougher. We went to Target on Sunday and I had to go sit outside on a bench and wait for them to finish shopping. My ankles are swelling pretty badly. I took my rings off and they're currently at the jeweler being resized (I also saw a very lovely diamond setting for my engagement ring while I was there... hint hint 5 year anniversary coming up!)

Unfortunately this year we didn't do the best job of spoiling my mom. We went out to breakfast and got her flowers but that was the extent of it. She was pretty much the caretaker of me and I appreciate it so much. My mom is one of the most giving, self-less people I know. I am admittedly selfish and I can only hope I take on the qualities that she possesses when I become a mother.

Sunday evening Jay arrived home and it took us awhile to get on the same page. Jay is going to be out of town for work this next week and I really wanted EVERYTHING complete before he left. When my mom and sister help out, they ask me what needs to be done and then they just do it. Jay asks what needs to be done and then argues with me about why it needs to be done. It is exhausting and we don't get much accomplished. This is an area we need to work on in our marriage. I'm not saying this to complain or talk badly about my husband. If you've followed this blog very long you know how wonderful and loving he is and what an amazing father he'll be and how thankful I am to have him but realistically, every couple and every relationship has areas that "need improvement", this just happens to be one of ours.

Back to the sweet, amazing, husband...Jay gave me the sweetest mother's day card last night. The card was sweet but the message he wrote me was over the top. I'll always keep that card. He made me cry tears of gratitude that we are in such a better place than we were last year at mother's day. I am just so thankful to be pregnant with these two sweet babies. I am so excited for what this year has in store for us.

Wow- this post is totally random but perfectly displays where my thoughts are right now. Have a happy Monday!