Monday, June 23, 2014

2 years old Emma Cate

This post will be all over the place. I want to capture your crazy personalities and funny things you say.

How in the WORLD do I have 2 year olds! These past two years have flown by. This is my favorite stage so far. It has been challenging dealing with your behavior, independence, and tantrums but it is also the most FUN!

picking up party food the day before your birthday

Emma Cate:
You are too much. You are sweet and loving and sassy all wrapped up into one really tiny package. We haven't been to your 2 year appointment yet but you weight 22.5lbs on our home scale and wear 18 month clothes. You are fiercely independent. I hear "self mommy" all day long. You want to do everything yourself. Only when you get stuck do I hear "help mommy". You wake up and play in your crib silently. You like to read and will sit there for hours until I come get you. You call your brother, Holdie and you both throw animals and books back and forth between your cribs until you both get tired with the game and then throw everything on the floor. I walk in your room to get you and hear "I wake up mommy!". We change your diaper next. You like diaper cream and always request "ceam mommy ceam". We request that you pick up your pjs and put them in your hamper... sometimes you comply readily and other times it takes some convincing. You then have to pick up any toys you threw over your crib before we head to breakfast. Immediately, you request milk and drink a ton. You're not much of an eater but you drink milk and water all the time.

At meals you love you fruit. We have to hold back so that you'll eat other parts of the meal. You also love syrup and will skip the pancakes and just like the syrup off your plate. Your favorite food is yogurt. We mixed plain yogurt, local honey and fruit for breakfast. I hear "yuh-gurt honeee pease" all the time. You also love strawberries, oranges and pineapple. You are a big fan of "o's" (cheerios or kashi cinnamon cereal) and request them a lot. You like your cheese shredded vs. cut. You will only eat a banana if it's in the peel and you like Kind granola. You have very definitive opinions and a quick to throw a temper if something isn't to your liking.

You love to play. Upstairs, your favorite thing to do is climb on the trunk (that serves as an end table) and fling your little body onto the couch. You also like to jump on the couch (this is discouraged in our home but I'm at a disadvantage when I'm in the middle of feeding Shep and you do this) and climb your anywhere chair. You fall a lot. We do quick hugs and kisses and you're off and running again. You like quiet time too and I'll find you sitting on the sofa reading a book. You're either wild child or calm and sweet. Not a lot of in between. In the playroom, your favorite thing is the bounce house. You jump and jump and jump. Actually, you like to jump everywhere, off steps, in place, on our little trampoline. You also like to sort things. You'll take all the food from your kitchen, fill your shopping cart, dump it out, and put it all back. You set up the little tea parties for us and baby Zsa Zsa to enjoy. We nibble on food and you think this is pretty funny. You LOVE the slide in the playroom and hurl yourself down it laughing all the way. I often hear your talk to yourself as you play and it is so sweet.

Your hair is curly curly and matches your personality. It is FINALLY growing in at your hairline and mommy is so excited. It's coming in really really blond. You have the best smile and love to say cheese for me to take your picture. You have a love/hate relationship with bows. You often request them and then yank them out of your hair and toss them across the room with a devilish laugh. I will give you two options of clothes to wear and you pick out what you're going to wear. Your summer favorite is your sailboat bubble. You also love your "wiwwy (lilly pulitzer) dresses".

You can throw a fit with the best of them but I think we're started to get away from this phase (thank God). You used to scream, kick, and hit me getting in your car seat but you've gotten so much better. I hear "i do it!" all the time. You like to buckle yourself in (just the chest strap), climb in the car, walk down the front steps, put on and take off your shoes all by yourself.

You are a great napper when you finally get to sleep. I'll put you down around 1 and you'll play quietly in your crib until 2:30 and then sleep until 5.

You squeal when you run and love being chased. You and Holden will chase each other around the island in the kitchen for a solid 20 minutes. You are a biter and we have to put you in time out often for this. You get so frustrated and latch on to Holdie and won't let go. You do give a little warning by screaming No Holdie No and swatting your hand back and forth before going in for the kill.

You still do get frustrated and misbehave. Often, we need some time to cool off and regroup. When you're really naughty you get a "sleep sack time out". You have figured out how to take your sleep sack off and climb out of your crib so Daddy had the great idea to put your sleep sacks on backwards so you couldn't get them off. You won't ever sit in time out and when we put you in time out in your crib you just crawl out. Gigi had the great idea to start sleep sack time out and we put you in your sleep sack and in your crib. You cry for a good 5 minutes then start screaming "I sorry mommy, I no bite!". It is really funny on my end. It probably sounds cruel but it works so well and when I go get you out, you are full of hugs and back to your sweet/crazy self.

You aren't a big tv watcher but you will put down anything you're doing to do the hot dog dance (you call it hottie doggie diggity dance). You like Sophia the First and Doc McStuffins but prefer to read books about them instead of watching the show. You also LOVE nemo. We watch nemo when we've got a long car ride.

We love to dance and you often request Pharrell's Happy as your song of choice. You also like Blurred Lines (I know... great parenting). Your aunt's have taught you to "whip your hair"  and you can also get low and pump. Watching you dance is comical. In the car you're pretty good at copying mommy's moves and can bob your head to the beat. You also like to put your hands in the air and wave em like you just don't care.

Before bed you love to read the Twins book. You know all of the words. You always do prayer hands when we pray and says AAAAmen when we are finished. You cry just long enough for us to make it down the hall and are out.

Emma Cate, you are so cute and spunky and bring so much laughter and joy to our lives. We love you very much!

Baby Shep 2 Months

Shepherd,
You are two months old!

taken at your 2 month doctor's visit
What our life is like:
We are still working on this schedule thing. I'm not nearly as strict as I was with the twins. You normally go to sleep around 9:30 or 10 for the night. Last night you slept from 10 until 6am! Woo hoo! Other nights, you are up around 4 and then at 7 or 3 and then 6. It really just depends. I've been busy lately and haven't kept you on as much as a schedule as I would have liked!

After the 6 am feeding you head to back to sleep. I do a morning pump (still making a good amount of milk) to empty out from the night before) and either head back to sleep or get up if EC and H are awake. You are up for the day at 8:30/9am and we start nursing then. You are pretty much exclusively breastfeed with an occasionally bottle here or there if I'm not home. If you do take a bottle, it's around 4-5oz. I don't really ever bottle feed you myself. This makes feeding SUPER easy. You are always on the the go and it makes it very easy to head out the door without packing bottles.

We are still settling into our summer/stay-at-home routine. Our schedule is normally dictated by what I've got going on. After the 9 am feeding we try to run all of our errands. We (EC, H and I) normally play with you/sing to you from across the room while you're sitting in your boppy until around 10. Then we head out for the day. You usually nap from 10-12 or 1 while we're out and about. If you fall asleep at home you'll take a a good hour nap and then doze on and off until it's time to eat again. You nap in your crib or in your guzzie and gus chair. You've even fallen asleep in your high chair. Third child, you are relaxed and go with the flow!

We nurse at 12/1 and then put the twins to sleep. We have playtime until 1:30 or 2 and then you're down for a nap and I have between 45 minutes to 2 hours to get things done around the house (or watch TV!) until someone wakes up from nap. Recently. Holden has been getting up early so the three of us hang out on the couch and have quiet time.

By 5, everyone is up and I'm trying to make dinner and count the minutes until Daddy gets home :) We've been so blessed to have meals for the past two months and I haven't had to do much cooking. We eat as a family around 5:30/6 and a lot of times you end up eating at the table with us. Nothing like nursing during dinner. I generally carry you around while we get the twins ready for bed or you hangout on your mat and swat at the toys overhead. You head to sleep at 7 for your catnap. We put the twins down and then get things done around the house until 9. We wake you up and bathe you. You nurse one last time and off to sleep you go! I do one more evening pump as soon as you go to bed. I try to head to bed after you but recently we haven't made it back there until midnight so those nights that you sleep til 6am are greatly appreciated!

Shepherd:
Nicknames: Shep, Sheppie, Shep Shep, Sheppie Beppie, Beppie, Chunky Monkey, Monkey, Mon-kiki, kiki, keeks, (like that progression there....!)
Weight: 12lbs 4oz. 
Height: 23 1/2 inches
Hair:  dark blonde. Hasn't really grown at all since birth. Love my bald babies!
Eyes: very dark blue
Clothes: newborn clothes were gone after the first two weeks. You've grown out of a lot of 3 month things and 6 month stuff fits/is a tiny tiny bit too big. I was so different about the twins when it came to clothes, I never ventured past their "month" in the closet. I pull everything from your closet (even the 9 month stuff) because I know how quickly you'll grow! We're trying to wear each item at least once but MAN do you have a lot of clothes.
Diapers: We said buhbye to the prefolds (ugh I hate those) and are pretty much in bum genius 4.0 or kawaii newborns all the time. You are on the tiniest rise in the BGs and we leave two columns of snaps showing.
Eating: Nursing every 3 hours and longer at night.
Likes: being held/sitting upright, the boba carrier (you nap in there a lot), being swaddled, being naked, laying on your playmat on the couch (not as much of a fan on the floor), being sung to, being tickled
Dislikes: falling asleep without the swaddle
Development: You are a champ at holding your head up and lifting your upper body. The doctor at your 2 month check up said that you were 2 months ahead in that area of development. It was funny for me to hear that because the twins were usually on the later end of gross motor development. It is very different having a full-term baby. You can also roll from belly to back. You are VERY strong. You are alert and bright eyed. You can follow me around the room and turn your head to hear my voice. You are smiling like a champ and give mommy the BEST smiles!
Words: not yet!
Teeth: not yet!

Extra:

Right after your one month appointment, you were diagnosed with reflux. We put you on medicine (axid) and it has made all the difference. You are SUCH a happy baby when you have your medicine. We can always tell when we've missed a dose because you start to cry. You usually don't cry much unless it's time to eat or you're trying to fall asleep (you have a hard time sleeping without your swaddle). You are a big guy and everyone comments on what a big baby you are. You are in the 25% for head, 50% for weight and 75% for length. You feel like the twins did at 5 months. Your carrier is so heavy and I prefer to put you in the boba if I have to carry you. You are the sweetest thing and give the best smiles. We enjoy playing together and chatting. I'm so glad you're good at nursing now because it is usually the only peaceful time we get to spend together :) It's hard on me that your a growing so fast. You were barely a newborn, and I feel like the infant phase is fleeting and now you are a baby. Slow down a little ok? 

Your brother and sister adore you. A lot of times you'll be sitting in your chair and the twins with be playing near you. I am in and out of the room trying to pick up and get laundry done. We hear you cry and EC or Holden will rush to give you your paci. Emma Cate likes to sing to you and you give her some pretty fabulous smiles. Holden can't wait for you to play with him. He is very loving to you but his hugs are a little tight around your head :) He tried to play cars with you but mommy put an end to that when he used your head as a road. Emma Cate likes to hold you but when she's done, she just let's go so we don't trust her too much!

I love you sooo much Sheppie. You have brought some peacefulness into our lives (sounds crazy with a newborn right?). I've got to slow down a bit when I'm with you and I love it. You are so happy and peaceful and always make me smile. I am so thankful for you. 

I'm Baaaaack

Sorry for the little mia in blogging. I switched over to private because I was interviewing for a new job! I always prefer to block my social media stuff during that process. I'm excited to say that I got the new job but haven't decided if I'm going to accept it yet. Decisions, decisions! It is for a VERY part-time teaching job at a small private school.

Currently, we are at the beach and I'm hanging out on the porch at 6:30am listening to the thunder in the distance while everyone else is asleep. I can't remember having this much quiet! I decided to catch up on some blogging so hopefully I can knock out some posts in the next hour or so.

Our life has been fun and exciting these past few months since Shep made his arrival. There is never a dull moment! I'm finding it really hard to blog but I still want to document our lives (thanks instagram! @akscarroll).

Monday, June 2, 2014

Shep's Newborn Pictures Part 1

The same Saturday as preschool carnival, we had pictures.Taking newborn pictures with twins is a bit crazy. With Shep being born so close to Easter, our photographer was also out of town during the sleepy newborn phase and Shep decided to stay awake through almost all of the pictures so we had to schedule another session for me to take him to the studio. 

My mom came over to help with pictures and watch the twins while we were working with Shep. She got some great pics while they were playing in the basement.
fixing gigi's toes

this guy fixes everything with his little drill

my girl with the curls



love these milk drunk faces

yes, this guy is a chunky monkey compared to his petite siblings



Preschool Carnival

The twins' Monday/Wednesday Preschool hosts a huge carnival each year as a fundraiser for the school. We had an absolute blast attending! We love their preschool and all the great things they do for families outside of the school day. We've had so much fun meeting new friends and families.  Both Gran (Jay's mom) and Gigi (my mom) came with us. Jay and I had it pretty easy carrying baby Shep around while the Grandmas had a ball with the twins.  
we started the day with yuh-gurt and hon-ee peas! We took family pictures before the carnival and the morning was a little crazy!

how cute is a sleeping baby

first smile!

after bath Holden climbed into our bed and snuggled up with Shep. I'm serious that he wants to be a baby again!

Waiting in line for the pony rides. 

This girl wanted to ride the pony so bad and stood in line for 20 minutes. She got up there and BAWLED when my mom stepped away to take a picture. Nice parent I am, I made her ride it and she stopped after a few seconds.

Gran and Holdie


Gigi and Cate (we pretty much call her Cate all the time when it's just our little family but always Emma Cate or Sassy in public!) making the rounds 

Riding the choo choo train. This was the highlight of their day!

Just two parents hanging out sans big kids. By the way. I LOVE my boba carrier! I had a bjorn with the twins and this is sooo much better. I look a little crazy in this picture because the top of the carrier buckles to the shoulders to protect the baby's head from sun.

Gigi climbed through the bounce maze with Emma Cate. 

Girlfriend LOVES her gigi


Daddy took Holden down the slide and got stuck so he ended up running down. It was comical.

this guy saw the big boys volunteering at the basketball station and couldn't wait to join them. Holden loves the big boys. He also like to point out boys and girls.

she stayed at this table for forever. best $1 ticket spent!

Shep and I snuck out after the carnival and met my sisters, mom, and brett for lunch and beers at providence sundries. Such a pretty day to sit and relax with the garage doors up!

Gran and the twins!

Paternity Leave Part 3

Now that we are a few weeks out and Shep is starting to sleep longer, I almost (not really though) miss late night feedings. It is so peaceful and calm and Shep is so sweet. Of course I had to take pictures to document!

love this shot!


Jay and I had another morning breakfast date. No ticket this time!

Yet another egg hunt! This time at Emma Cate's other preschool. She is pretty good at egg hunting. The only problem is that she likes to eat as she goes.


The now have the habit of sitting on the front porch and saying cheese whenever we go out. 

This girl LOVES pimento cheese. We actually made it out to dinner at Tupelo Honey and she dives into the bowl.

this one NEVER smiles for the camera but I just LOVE capturing the joy on his face!

Any my third. love.

And we finally hit Friday. I was crazy and signed these babies up for swim lessons that started the Monday after I had Shep. I knew that Jay would be home that first week to help me but I didn't think about what a pain they would be after that! The kids do Infant Swim Rescue classes. Basically they learn how to "survival" swim. They have done a great job but I am by no means comfortable throwing them into a pool and letting them go. I think these lessons just buy a little more time for someone to get to them if they were to ever fall in the water by accident. These lessons are 10 minutes each child, monday-friday for 4 weeks. The pool they used to take them in was a mile from our house which made it ok but the pool they are at now is a good 25 minutes away. This make arranging naps super fun!


passed out after lessons

toes to nose. This girl is a goof!

what is it about dog and baby pictures that is so cute!





Paternity Leave Part 2 (Easter Egg, Hunt, Date Night)

I'm trying to get caught up to present time without forgetting anything! The next few posts will be mainly pictures to help me remember!

The Tuesday after Shep was born we dropped the kids at preschool and went on a little date. Shep had his first doctor's appointment that morning so we decided a quick breakfast at Starbucks would fit the bill. We so smuggly sat and ate our breakfast and talked about how easy it was having just one kid with us. We walked out to our car feeling happy and smug with new parent love, you know the "we totally got this three kid thing down" to find our car had been booted because we parked in the wrong spot... a nice $50 later we headed to the doctor's office...

Baby Shep's first doctor's appointment. Little guy was up to 8.5 pounds. In almost a week he had gained back to his birth weight and then some. Our chunky monkey loves to eat! He had a great bill of health and on we went to pick up the kids to take them to swimming.

After naps we played in the basement. This one has been really into all things baby since Shep was born.

He is also pretty obsessed with this drill that he got from Gigi and Pop Po as his big brother gift.

The entire first week, I spent most of my nights like this. We would put the twins down and I would snuggle up with this little guy. I know how fleeting those newborn moments are. We still feel like we'd like a 4th baby but just in case that isn't in our cards, I am making the most of Shep's newborn stage. Soaking in every minute and letting the laundry pile up and the dust bunnies collect.

Jay's a pretty fabulous daddy to his babies and is always pitching in to help

Somewhere between 2am-5am we lost our favorite backyard tree. It's crazy that we were playing under it just the day before. We were so thankful no one got hurt and our neighbor's garage only had minimal damage. We didn't have storms or anything but when our general contractor came to take a look, he said that the tree had been dead for a long time but we would have never known because of it's leaves. So sad to see it go. We now how a huge mound in our backyard and we're trying to figure out what to do with it.

just love snapping pics of this little guy.

On Wednesday the 23rd we headed to the twins' preschool for an easter egg hunt. They had spring break the week before easter so the hunt was postponed. It was so nice to have Jay with me to chase these guys around. Shep slept the whole time in his carrier.


like I said... this one has been into all things baby since Shep's arrival. I found him having "tummy time" on Shep's stuff when I was feeding Shep. I posted this on instagram (follow me @akscarroll) and was surprised how many people thought this was Shep! He's a big guy but not that big.

Another shot of our poor tree

Shep with his first babysitter
A week after Shep was born we had a fundraiser to attend for the twins' preschool. It was so nice to get out as a couple!